NOVEMBER MEMORIES

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WELL I remember Guy Fawkes day as a child. We would dress up a doll in a pram supposed to be an effigy of Guy Fawkes and go to neighbor’s houses asking for “A Penny for the Guy!” and singing “Remember, Remember, the 5th of November, Gunpowder treason and plot, We see no reason should ever been forgot” Of course the pennies went on sweets generally black and white striped bull’s eyes!

Guy Fawkes’s father died and his mother remarried a Catholic. Guy was converted to Catholicism. He went off to Spain to fight against the Protestant low countries where he was known as Guido. Returning to Britain he subsequently met Thomas Winter who introduced him to Robert Catesby dedicated to restoring Catholic James 1st to the throne. Catesby found an undercroft beneath the House of Lords and enlisted Guy Fawkes to take care of the gunpowder needed. An anonymous letter prompted the authorities to search Westminster Palace where Guy Fawkes was arrested for treason and sentenced to be hung drawn and quartered. He jumped off the platform beneath the scaffold, fell and broke his neck. Each year Guardsmen search the Houses of Parliament looking for explosives, a ceremonial remembrance.

Here in South Africa the memory of Guy Fawkes is fading into obscurity although families light fireworks on designated areas only. Animals are usually frightened by the bangs and run away so that the SPCA is busy rescuing frightened dogs and other pets. When I was a girl and lived in Fish Hoek everyone went down to the beach and lit their own fireworks. Of course this was dangerous and eventually stopped.

Guy Fawkes coincides as it does with Diwali. Diwali is the Hindu festival of light celebrated over five days during the Hindu Lunisolar month Kartika. The ceremony celebrates victory over darkness, good over evil and knowledge over ignorance. Our Indian communities light fireworks on designated areas.

November is a time when the fall of the Berlin wall is commemorated and of course Britain holds Remembrance Sunday to honour the fallen in both World Wars and other conflicts. Remembrance Sunday on the 11th day of the 11th month is always the second Sunday in November when armistice of the Second World War was signed in Potsdam in Occupied Germany by United Kingdom’s Prime Minister Winston Churchill, Harry S. Truman, President of the United States and Joseph Stalin, General Secretary of the Soviet Union.

In March 2000 I was due to attend ITB, the largest tourist exhibition in the world in Berlin, Germany. I had worked out that the cheapest way to get to this city that I had never been to was to drive to Windhoek in Namibia and fly from there to Frankfurt where I would catch a train to Berlin. I was heavily loaded with the travel books that Susan and I produced, Discovering Botswana and Inside Zambia. I duly arrived at the airport in Windhoek only to be informed that Air Namibia’s solitary Boeing had flown to Beira in Mozambique where the Zambezi had burst its banks on the flood plain leading to its estuary to rescue stranded people and deliver food and medical requirements. I sat at the airport for over twelve hours so only departed the next day.

Arriving at Frankfurt airport I was unprepared for this huge airport with its myriad elevators to the various outlets and train stations. I struggled with my boxes of books balanced precariously on a trolley, onto an escalator and down to a station where a train to Berlin was expected an hour later. The train arrived, with the gap between it and the station an obstacle to be surmounted to load the boxes aboard. I looked around desperately for help. Spotting a group of Japanese tourists I gestured with my hands, pointing to the boxes and then pointing to the train. “AH, AH, SO!” The Japs replied and loaded my boxes on board with bows and exclamations. I thanked them sincerely and could only hope that they got the message!

I arrived in Berlin at midnight! It was minus 15 with snow everywhere. Fortunately I had kept the long ski jacket that I bought many years before for a ski trip to Austria and was warm enough. A porter came to help and got me a taxi who very kindly found me a reasonable B & B.

Next day I managed to catch the necessary train to take me to ITB, a huge building and another taxi to deliver me to the door. I walked and walked and walked until I found the Botswana exhibit, my new boots beginning to bite! By the time that week was over my feet were in agony but I was determined to spend the last two days when the show was over to see something of Berlin and together with some other exhibitors caught a tourist bus to Potsdam where the armistice was signed in 1945. I could not face my boots again so put on a pair of sandals with socks. We alighted into deep snow and the tour guide looked at me and enquired “Are these your African Shoes?” I said “Yes” The guide shook his head in disbelief! However after the tour I felt that I had visited a very historic site.

The following year Susan came with me and did not really believe me when I told her just how cold it was. She wore her grandmother’s Burbury overcoat and shivered! We stayed in the old part of the city called Mitte formerly part of Communist Berlin behind the Berlin Wall and were walking along a side road when I glanced to the side to see coats hanging from rails in a small alcove. From the look of the women who were selling these coats and their accents I deduced that they were Russians down on their luck. I took the lead and bought Susan a hip length silver fox fur coat for 35 euros! She ummed and ahed. “This is real fur! I can’t wear this.!” “Look around you, all the Berlin people are wearing fur, besides people at the show will think you are wearing fake fur and this animal was killed a long time ago!”

She was as warm as toast after that and we enjoyed our stay. We had found accommodation in a private flat on top of an eighteen story building. Our beds were on the floor and there was one armchair and a small table. We bought slabs of chocolate filled with liqueur and chomped them in bed with our books in the evenings. Susan is a smoker and had to go downstairs to stand outside the entrance in the snow to have a cigarette! We managed to find our way on the trains and found a lovely warm pub in Mitte that served everything with heaps of potatoes!

We would walk to Potsdamer Platz where the first breach of the Berlin Wall was on 11th November 1989 and at the Brandenburg Gate a month later. From here it was no distance to the Brandenburg Gate and we ventured inside the famous Adlon Hotel on Unter den Linden. This hotel was one of the best in Europe in its heyday but was largely destroyed in World War 2. A small portion of it operated until 1997 when it was restored. We also enjoyed walking to Charlottenburg Palace that was built in the 17th century and expanded in the 18th with beautiful gardens.

The next time I went to Berlin I was alone but my friend Tiaan Theron, a tour guide in Botswana and his German wife Sabina were there to visit her parents. They invited me to a Turkish restaurant with their Berlin friends. I was chatting to another Botswana friend when Tiaan asked me to refrain from talking about my varied travels. He explained that their friends had never left Berlin. I could not believe it! However one of them told me to go to the Museum that was situated in a shopping centre. I did and there was the story of Berlin from the time it was a group of small huts on the river.

I was fascinated because it encompassed the growth of the city and the country and eventually the Nazi regime and the basis of Hitler’s creed if you like to call it that based on his book Mein Kampf that chronicled his belief in anti-semitism. I was gobsmacked because I realized that Robert Mugabe the President of Zimbabwe had based his regime on the same creed. Mugabe died recently after completely destroying his country by looting, becoming an absolute dictator and causing so many Zimbabweans to flee to Botswana and South Africa. Today in South Africa we have the EFF the third largest opposition party whose leader Julius Malema was a great fan of Mugabe and whose policies in my opinion mirror that of the Nazi’s of yesteryear.

Now to Remembrance Sunday. Susan and I had attended it in London on a couple of occasions but the one that sticks in my mind is the time we went just after the dreadful attack on the World Trade Centre in New York by terrorists on September 9th 1963. I had been staying at my son Mick’s house in Hout Bay and arrived to find his maid ironing with one eye on the television. I saw these aircraft approaching a tall building and gasped.” Something dreadful is about to happen!”

Here we were in London in November staying with our friends Andrew and Leane who lived in London and were adamant that we should not attend as a terrorist attack was expected. Susan and I decided that terrorists or no terrorists we were going to attend. I had my trusty ski jacket on and as we came up the steps of the underground I was stopped as I walked under the metal detector frame. The policewoman searched me politely but thoroughly and eventually decided that I had some oil on my coat but harboured no firearm or bomb!

We stood behind a group of young men in Burbury coats who were drinking from hip flasks as they cheered the elderly service men and women, some of whom were in wheel chairs marching by, all having served their country in some conflict across the globe. The young men heard Susan and I chatting and turned round. “The Boers are here!”. We all laughed as they were referring to the Boer War in South Africa in 1888 to 1902 when Britain and South Africa were at war because the Boers had rebelled against the English. Local farmers were called Boers and the British at the time under Lord Kitchener destroyed their farms and put their women into concentration camps so cutting their line of supplies. The Boers were renowned marksmen and moved around the country on horseback. Some Afrikaners of today still hate the English!

Looking across the road we could see the snipers on the roofs watching for terrorists. The Queen arrived and walked entirely alone to lay a wreath at the Cenotaph in memory of those service men and women. A minute of silence ensued and not a pin could be heard dropping or a child coughing. Her Majesty was completely exposed to the danger of terrorists except for the thorough security of the intelligence and Police Force. Having laid the wreath as the minute of silence ended the crowd rang with the anthem “God Save Our Queen!”

The Union of  South Africa came into being on 31st May 1910 eight years after signing the Treaty of Vereeniging that ended the 2nd Boer War on the unification of the Cape Colony, the Natal Colony, the Transvaal and the Orange River Colony.  Subsequently the country was granted independence in 1931 by the Statute of Westminster.

I was born in 1939 and still remember going to the ‘bioscope’ in Plein Street in Cape Town. We had to stand to the playing of God save the King before the film. Entrance was sixpence and entitled you to a red or green cooldrink. I remember seeing Nelson Eddy and Jeanette MacDonald in Naughty Marietta and Bobby Breen with his incredible soprano singing Somewhere over the Rainbow! Years later when we moved to Fish Hoek I had a friend called Maureen who had a lovely voice. We would walk the dunes around Peers Cave that often had a vlei at the base. One day Maureen stood on one dune and I on the other while she sang the same song, her voice carrying across the vlei between us. (A vlei is a stretch of shallow water.) Magic!

I still have a picture of Her Majesty the Queen on my fridge. One year we were in Mozambique at Jangamo Bay when the Royal Wedding of William and Kate was on. I was watching it on the television in a local bar. Mick came up dripping wet from the waves and shook his head at me. “You and your Royals!” I smiled back at him. “You don’t realize that they were part of my growing up!”

Well I remember the day H.M.S Vanguard arrived with their Majesties, King George and Queen Elizabeth and the two princesses. My father had promised to take me to see the destroyer that had served in the war enter Duncan Docks. The day was very hot and his favourite prize pig fainted so I had to listen to the radio while we poured buckets of water over the sow! However my mother’s cousin’s husband was a chauffer for the Government Garage and drove the Royal Family and General Smuts around the city. He told how Princess Margaret was a great mimic and would ‘take off’ the various dignitaries including General Smuts.

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Princess Margaret

When the Royal Family were to move upcountry they travelled in the White Train, its coaches pure white pulled by a great steam engine. I was coming home from school, about 7 years old and had to catch a train at Observatory, change at Salt River and catch another to Kuilsriver. My train stopped at Bellville, was shunted out of the way, the passengers all detrained at the station where we waited for the White train to come through. The wait was long and I got very hungry. The friendly stationmaster bought me a mincemeat pie with sticky filling that looked like dead flies but I ate it happily. The White Train duly appeared and I had a good view of the Royal Family through the windows.

I arrived at Kuilsriver station very late with my mother frantic with worry. I had to walk home, some three miles and was further delayed by a flock of sheep being driven to the nearby abattoirs. A Mrs. Brindle lived near our small farm and drove up the gravel road each day like some racing driver. I was slogging along slowly behind the flock when she came through, sheep scattering in all directions with the shepherd jumping to the side in fright while I cowered in the ditch at the side emerging with my uniform filthy! My mother was not amused!

When I lived in Maun for a couple of years my grandsons then grown up would play pool with the Princes who loved Botswana and the Delta where the British Special Forces did exercises with the Botswana Defence Force each year. The Princes were like most youngsters and they enjoyed partying as most young people can in Maun with their bodyguards well in the background. The tale goes that William went home in the early hours with a mate and slept on the sofa. In the morning the father kicked him off the sofa, saying “Who the hell do you think you are, sleeping on my sofa!” quite unaware of who the errant young man was, only the future King of England!

On that I will end this blog and take it to TJ on this very hot Sunday where his son Greg will be prevailed upon to give young Jack, my dachshund a bath as the old back does not like bending down any more!

We will remember them…

This Friday morning at 6.30 I heard the strains of The Last Post on the radio. Of Course! Sunday the 11th is Remembrance Day. The First World War Armistice was declared at the eleventh hour of the 11th day 1918.

In November 2011 Susan and I flew to London to attend the World Travel Mart. The English capital was still reeling from the awful events in America when the Twin Towers had been attacked by el Qaeda operatives. The city was on high alert with the remembrance service due to be held on the 11th.

Susan and I stayed with our friends Andrew and Leanne de Jager and took the tube to the travel mart every day. Our duties done we wanted to attend the Remembrance ceremony but were being dissuaded due to the threat of a possible terrorist attack. I remember us walking down a London Street and simultaneously turning to one another. “No bloody likely is any pesky terrorist going to stop us going!”

We duly set out on that Sunday. Security was everywhere and we were guided through a metal detector that pinged when I went through. The policewoman searched me from top to toe and eventually said that I probably had some oil on my ski jacket that had set the machine off. She let us go.

We found a place behind some tall young Englishmen in their Burberry coats one pace from the barrier. Chatting about our experience we were overheard by the young men who turned to us laughing. “The Boers are here!” This was of course a referral to another war, the Boer War where Britain and the South Africans were engaged in conflict. I will not go into that here. We got on famously when they offered us their hip flasks of whisky!

Opposite we could see snipers on all the roofs. The old and young soldiers from current conflicts began marching past, men and women. I was touched as the British public shouted out their thanks to these servicemen and women. Tears came to my eyes.

Her Majesty Queen Elizabeth stepped out alone to lay the wreath on the Cenotaph standing all alone with her head bowed. A target for any terrorist! Two minutes silence commenced when not a pin could be heard amongst this huge crowd.

Little did I know then that the ritual of two minutes silence had its origins in South Africa. A Scotsman, Robert Rutherford Brydone who was born in Edinburgh immigrated to South Africa when he was twenty two. He had a career in insurance and became a town councilor in Cape Town. At a meeting in 1915 a man stood up and said “You will forget us as soon as we are gone!”

Mr. Brydone promised that the City would not forget them in their absence. He organized a monthly meeting to remember those fighting in Europe. The mayor of Cape Town at that time was Sir Harry Hands and his son was killed in Europe. Mr. Brydone suggested that the noon day gun would fire, marking a pause in activity in the city for people to pray for those in the war.

The first minutes of silence were observed in Cape Town on 14th May 1918. A trumpeter played The Last Post from the balcony of Fletcher and Cartwright store.

Enter Sir Percy Fitzpatrick a mining financier, author and pioneer of the fruit industry in South Africa. Sir Percy is still well known for his book Jock of the Bushveld. Sir Percy suggested to the British Government that it should become a ritual to have a 2 minutes silence for the fallen on Remembrance Day. This has been observed since 1919.

The Poem “For The Fallen” was written by Laurence Binyon in 1914 while sitting on the cliffs overlooking the sea from the Cornish coastline. The fourth stanza was adopted by the Royal British Legion for remembrance ceremonies.

 

They shall not grow old as we that are left grow old

Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn

At the going down of the sun and in the morning

We will remember them.

 

Well I remember my Grandfather Tagg teaching these words to me

The Moths also used The Poem for the Fallen. Moth stands for the Memorable Order of the Tin Hats. They were marvelous after my Grandfather died, helping to ease my grandmother’s life as she was crippled by arthritis.

Grandfather was born in Shoreditch London within the sound of the Bow Bells so he was a Cockney. Grandfather took the King’s shilling. This was a custom in the English Civil War but has stood the test of time and is still used today. It meant that he agreed to serve his country for the then payment of a shilling a day. He came to South Africa as a signaler and was stationed at Norval’s Pont near Colesberg in the Karoo.  He survived the Boer war (now called the South African War) and his name is on the Grahamstown war memorial.

Norval’s pont is named after a Scotsman from Glasgow who ended up in Colesberg. He designed woolen hats to protect the head from the elements. It is very cold in the Karoo in the winter. He bought a sheep farm so that he had the wool for the hats but gazed longingly over the Orange River wondering how further he could market his hats. “Ah! A Pont!”

This pont was used by the early Trekkers from the Cape and later from both sides during the Boer War. My Grandfather had to guard it then!

Back to Remembrance Sunday. During the Apartheid era young men had to do National Service and were stationed in far off places like the Caprivi Strip and ultimately were drafted into Angola against the Cubans. One such was my son and my then son-in law.

When in Berlin for the Travel Fair I visited the place where Churchill, Eisenhower and Stalin met to agree the terms of the end of the war. Churchill never trusted Stalin. We should also remember another South African intimately involved in that war. Jan Smuts. Churchill particularly requested his help in this war making him a General. Jan Smuts is credited with the idea of the League of Nations that evolved into the United Nations.

We must remember in this modern South Africa that many black soldiers served in both the first and second World wars and the Boer War and the South African War and in the conflict that was called the border war in South West Africa. At this time we remember them all, as the First World War song said:

 

Bless ‘em all

Bless ‘em all

The long and the short and the tall

Bless all those Sergeants and WO1’s

Bless all those Corporals and their blinkin’/bleeding sons

‘Cos we’re saying goodbye to them all

And back to their Billets they crawl

You’ll get no promotion this side of the ocean

So cheer up my lads, Bless ‘em all!

The song was written by Fred Godfrey and first recorded by George Formby. It was made famous by Gracie Fields and Vera Lynn.